At certain moments, however, under the right amount of pressure, the real ‘we‘ that with difficulty we had kept suppressed shatters the mask and springs forth…
If we are prepared to accept that people are like that, and they may open their eyes but will never really change, it puts us in a better position: for one thing, we realise our efforts to change them aren’t going to work – which is frustrating of course, but then it is relieving as well. It sets us free.
I have been battling a demon of my own for many years. All this while, all these encounters, always the same outcome – and yet, I have not tamed the beast nor trained it nor brought it into any kind of control. It deludes me into thinking it is asleep or even dead; and when least expected, awakens with a roar, and rears its head, completely overpowering me. A battle of the brain and the heart, one might call it. The one, always pragmatic, always ready with wise counsel, eventually bows to the other, foolish, impulsive, adventurous. Every now and then, the cycle repeats, over and over. Tossing me up and down; and from north to south.
A string of disappointments follow, but interestingly, no regrets. Experiences, aren’t those what we live for? Memories of adventures past, aren’t those the only things that remain with us, when all else is lost?
There’s no escape – ultimately I have come to terms with that fact. One can resist only for so long. The only way forward is to walk through the fire. Because there definitely is reprieve, on the other side. Besides, I know the road. I have taken it countless times.
I pretend that no one knows of the existence of the slumbering beast but I. Honestly, I have no idea. It must show, somehow or the other, a sudden flash. Our true nature cannot be hidden for long. I cannot change, but now that I know it, I can better equip myself for the stroll through fire.
I suppose I am grateful though. But for the existence of the demon and the unrest it drives me into, I would not be writing nonsense like this at all. Any writing, whether to a specific purpose or otherwise, is fuel to the fire of creativity. When the war rages on, as it takes me through its ups and downs, and stifles me with its maddening persistence, I find an outlet, an escape, an energy – in words.
This demon… this sleeping giant… and the battle I have to wage every day…