Look, I tried to blend in.
I did not wish to, I fought my inner urge, but I did.
I did all that they wished me to. Well, almost.
Yet they caught on to the little things I missed.
And they remembered things from the past.
Things I wanted to forget.
And they dragged it all before me – I did not know how to react.
The stuff they did not drag – hung before our eyes, the elephant in the room.
I was not armed with details from their past. I never cared.
No, society isn’t forgiving. They aren’t kind.
They’re mocking. They revel in it. They thrive in it. They rejoice in it.
And God, what long-lasting memory they have!
If you do not fit in, they tarnish you – with a smile.
Oh, that winning smile!
But I swallowed my discomfort.
I tried to smile and pretend it did not matter.
I even joked, for God’s sake.
I had to go through this. It was only a matter of a few hours.
If they can survive, so can I.
But I didn’t.
I did put up a good fight, but I lost.
I took a deep breath and turned away.
This was not me. I could not do this.
And when my back was turned, they all trickled away. And I was left all alone, stunned.
Where had I gone wrong?
Why was it so much easier for them?
Later, much later, when it all came back in full force, I decided… I cannot be myself. It was a lost battle.
It was not worth while.
It was draining.
It was lonesome.
They were never going to give up. They will hound me for years. For as long as I live.
Better I put on a show than not. At least to give them less ammunition.
It was easier to give up and follow the rules. Even if it killed me or drove me insane.
It was possible to learn the ropes.
Then I would arm myself – with their past. Yes, I would play nasty.
It was easier to (pretend to) become one of them than try to be me.
Who cares, either way?
Life is a tight-rope walk, is it not?
To be ourselves, we are allowed not;
To give up ourselves, surely we cannot.
Maybe somewhere in between, we need to be.
That somewhere is where peace probably will be.